Public speaking is a very big aspect of personality development training. Why? Because, whether you are able to speak in public has a very important connection to your personality.
Your personality type tells a lot about whether you are an extrovert or introvert. If you are an extrovert, it will probably not be that tough for you to speak in front of a crowd. But if you are an introvert, it is almost a nightmare for you.
Personality development training majorly helps you in being comfortable with who you are rather than being conscious. According to me, that is what an ideal personality development training should do. Most of the times we simply hammer ourselves that we are not god enough. A good personality development training should make you get rid of that feeling and make you feel more confident in your skin.
If you ask me, my biggest personality development tip for being great at public speaking is the same. Tell yourself, “It is okay to be the way I am”. Trust me, your biggest fear about public speaking is that you are not good enough. That is where the work is needed.
Do a little seld analysis. See if you constantly get this feeling. If you do, congratulations! You have gotten to first level of correcting that. Are you wondering how? Well, by getting aware of it. Once you are aware of what needs to changed in you, you are half way through. As they say, ‘Well begun is half done’.
Believe me people, if you really face this ‘I am not good enough’ issue, it really is serious. Working on it and changing that about you will not just help you in public speaking, but also in dealing with regular life issues. you will move more towards positive thinking and the negative thoughts that kept pulling you down will soon vanish.
Personality development trainings are very common these days. Almost every one is offering that. But, you need to be very careful with what you are choosing for yourself. Personality development trainings are definitely effective, but if they are telling you have ‘so and so’ flaws, move out immediately.
Personality development training as I said should more of self analysis and working on it using some well defined methods and tools. At the end of it you should feel more confident and great about yourself and not bad about yourself. That would be a successful personality development training. Once you go through a training like that, public speaking would be enjoyable for you. You will no longer feel like running away. 🙂